When our elderly parent, grandparent, friend, or family member gets up there in age, we start reflecting on the questions we never asked, the information we never received, and the stories that were never told. Sometimes we wait until it is too late to feel the need to connect deeper, and that is a tragedy. We have today, and that is the most important thing. What would you like to ask your elderly Loved one?
First of all, approach your elderly person with kindness, gentleness, and patience. Make sure it is a good time for them and that they are rested, fed, and feeling up to a conversation. From childhood to present day, there are so many topics of conversation. You can start from the beginning, or simply pick things you are interested in talking about. Here are some ideas of questions and topics to discuss...
What was your childhood like?
What is something you remember about your mother/father/siblings?
What part of your childhood stands out to you to this day?
What are some of your most treasured memories?
What was your proudest accomplishment in life?
What have you been most grateful for in your life?
How did you meet your spouse?
What are some life lessons you will never forget?
How would you like people to remember you?
Do you have any life regrets?
What philosophies resonate with you the most in life?
What is your favorite family tradition?
Who was your favorite friend throughout life and why?
What advice do you have for young people in today's society?
What gives you the most joy now?
Don't wait another day to have these conversations with the ones you Love. Life is too short to let another day go by without connecting, sharing, and talking to the wisdom keepers that are still alive on this planet. They have so many life experiences, and so much knowledge and wisdom to share when we are willing to slow down and listen. These stories are like gold when they are gone. Learn from those who waited too long, and take this opportunity to have no regrets. Listening to stories can help you understand yourself better, and can help preserve precious memories and heart-felt stories for a lifetime.
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